What is a Twinflame
A Twinflame is a soul that’s split in two halves : the Divine Feminine & Divine Masculine, and they incarnate in two different bodies, often at different times and location/culture. It creates a deep sense of being incomplete which eventually results in the quest to find their way back to each other at one point in life. But often this journey only starts when the souls are ready to be confronted with themselves, that means it can happen either early or late in life.
A Twinflame is that person who you share the deepest most intimate love with. They often have an age gab, but it can be as small as 2 year and as big as 20 years. They share the same soul frequency, therefore having a lot in common with striking similarities in their life, personality, interests, preferences,… The magnetism between them is by far the most profound element that’s nowhere else to be found. It’s a once in a lifetime love, but not that common, rather rare.
The Twinflame connection is something most of us strive for, to find our Divine Masculine or Feminine,
to feel absolute symbiosis with our romantic partner. Yet, this connection is a reflection of yourself in the other, A contact that’s powerfully confrontational and painfully challenging for the magnetism is out of this world and undeniable. Both amplify each others strengths and weaknesses, making the relationship extremely difficult, especially in the beginning stages. This union teaches us the true essence of unconditional love through (re)aligning us with the power and source of the soul. But to succeed, often means to let go and walk the darkest within, alone.
The Twinflame relationship is known for it’s turbulence, chaos, unpredictability, deep pain and purging. There is an inevitable chapter where one will run as the other chases, or the push-pull dynamic. It’s able to display all sorts of toxicity, but it’s exactly here where most people tend to make a big mistake : fast to call someone their Twinflame and this gave birth to the common term of the “false Twinflame”.
What defines a Twinflame is the distinct feeling of familiarity and home, but familiarity can also be found in karmic and past life relationships, so it’s not always easy to make the distinction when we’re numbed by the spell of love.
A Twinflame is an energetic recognition, that means you don’t need to see what they look like in 3D in order to recognize them. But when you get to see them, it’s the eyes that will tell, those are very different from any other pair of eyes you’ve ever looked at. It’s the same as staring into the absence of time and the meaning of nurture, you immediately know who they are without explanation.
Twinflames have fights, but the difference is that they forgive, look within AND make constructive changes so that each can evolve and become a better version than who they were before.
The Twinflame is no excuse for infidelity, destructive behavioral patterns, disrespect, obsession, addiction,…
and this is yet another pitfall where many use this concept to mask their dysfunctional values and wiring. But it is a promise that a Twinflame will push the ugly out of you, so that there is no other option than to sit with your own bullshit.
According to the bible….
It is said that there are only 144000 chosen ones. Souls on a mission to heal the earth and raise consciousness. In comparison to the current human population of about 8 billion souls,
the number of real Twinflames is narrowed down to a very small group of only 0.001% .
Be careful in your delusions, be aware to the blind romanticism, of what you wish someone to be.
If you search Twinflame online, you’ll find all sorts of explanations, but also claims. Big headliners that say “the meant to be partner” and instilling a collective factual construct that leaves no room for the personal perception of truth to be discovered. Don’t believe the hype, careful to hop on the wagon of the woke clan and those that try to sell you retardedly expensive retreats, courses, e-books,… Or those that preach to reunite NOW, those that claim to know the key to end the “separation stage” as soon as possible. This is in fact contradictory to the whole spiritual essence in the art of letting go and loving unconditionally.
Those that focus on ending the separation stage, the focus on the physical aspect of oneness,
are those that don’t master spirituality. And yes, i’m well aware of the bold statement i’m making here.
I know, this is not what you want to hear, but it’s the truth that often hurts the most. No comfort here, only evolution and raising true consciousness. I’m not here to please your desires, I’m here to support actual transformation.
“Do not let spiritual ego distract you. Some have become enamoured with the idea of being a twinflame and, because they have read that it is a difficult dynamic, have locked themsleves into unhealthy relationships that do not serve them and are in no way cosmically aligned. When you attach your identity to any spiritual label, you give away your power and anchor yourself in ego” – The Rainbow tablets by Sia-Lanu Estrella
Please take a moment to listen and broaden your perspective, to define your own truth :
Now, that that’s being said.. Twinflames don’t always (re)unite in this lifetime. Most of them, however, do end up together, for the love is too strong, but this is often as a result of a circumstantial flow, that allows both halves to be in physical union. I believe that this strongly depends on your mission and responsibilities in life. You can’t just give up your family and children to go leak your soul juices on the other side of the world, that’s a huge karmic load your uploading there my friend. Although this is a highly spiritual connection, we have to stay grounded, and that’s the challenge that often comes with a Twinflame connection : how will you balance 3D and 5D?
If 3D means the bodily and sensory perception of being
If 5D means the intangible higher consciousness of being
Than why is the majority of the people looking to materialize 5D?
Whether Twinflames are in physical union or in physical separation, they remain the eternal cosmic counterpart,
It’s the truth of the soul, which should never be questioned, for the truth is within, so why to seek validation is the question. Union is always, everywhere and forever.
Learn more about the most common indications of a twinflame
Astrology & Twinflames
Here i’ll share my personal findings and observations on what could potentially link with Twinflames from an Astrological perspective… I do not believe that there is 1 specific thing that’s the ultimate Twinflame indication, but there are patterns.
Eros & Psyche
If they are conjunct or in a harmonious aspect in synastry, there’s usually a very strong and blind attraction between two people but only if more aspects point in that direction. Just one aspect will never be enough for millions of others would have the same aspect to your chart. it’s about perfect divine timing of birth that makes two charts click like a glove.
Psyche means soul, and Eros means sexual. Read more about psyche
Psyche & Eros as the resemblance to the Twinflame connection :
• Psyche married Eros blindly = Resembles energetic attraction of TF
• Betrayal of trust leading to separation = Resembles the inevitable stage of physical separation of TF
• Psyche was sent to the underworld = Resembles the individual journey of the TF
• Psyche was given 3 Plutonian trials > I link this to the 3 stages of the Scorpio :
1) Scorpion = low vibrational, negative expression
2) Eagle = Bending misfortune into wisdom, but still struggling to balance (3D & 5D)
3) Phoenix = Transcending the physical realm, loosening attachment = 5D
• Psyche is given the gift or immortality = 5D
Both the 3 trials (as in the 3 stages of the Scorpio) and the final gift of Psyche, resemble the essence of transcending.
To trust what is, to look beyond the here and now.
The point in the sky of divine downloads, soul memory, pioneering and controversial missions. It’s possible that either one of the twinflames has a significant natal conjunction to the GC (the rest of the natal chart confirms the mission of the GC). It caught my eye that the GC is repeatedly activated during important events between Twinflames, especially when you meet (physically). Read more about the GC
The GC is connected to those who are on a special an revolutionary quest. It’s the point of higher consciousness, the truth that needs to be brought to the collective. So a Twinflame connection cannot exist without a strong link to the GC in my opinion.
Vesta means divine sexuality, sacred unions and purity. She is represents our devotion to the spiritual. But she also signifies sacrifices. Either one of the twiflames has a significant Vesta aspect or theme in the chart. Vesta may be prominently aspected in synastry or with a NameAsteroid in the natal chart.
As the Moon is the most sensitive personal planet, it cannot be missed as an important factor in the whole astrological chemistry between people, so there has to be some similarity with the Moon as this represents our emotions, our feelings, the mind, the memory and part of the soul. Don’t mind me mentioning Moon exact conjunct Moon as a very strong indication (from personal experience), it is said to be rather rare, but there should be more indications than just this aspect alone.
Having the Moons square or opposite, may ignite sexual attraction, but the two Moons are not in harmony with one another, it means differences in the emotional nature of both people, which does not makes sense to me. Moon conjunct Moon is an instant intuitive connection, it signifies deep and emotional similarity. I’m not keen on the idea of having conflicted Moon’s.
She is the intuitive channel, the raw feminine energy, so her presence can’t be missed between Twinflames for Lilith often points to sexual healing and uncovering the shadow self. Connections to the Moon, Venus, Northnode in synastry. Strong Lilith aspects are very hard to deny in synastry, she’s able to pull in two people like magnets, but more indications are required to reflect a strong and constructive connection (also depends on maturity levels).
Read more about Lilith
For Twinflames to encounter, there has to be a portal that opens the entrance into each others consciousness.
Think about the pre natal eclipse point that’s activated, Pholus that’s in the mix creating the catapult scenario’s of being brutally redirected and realigned with our essence, The southnode conjunct the Moon reintroducing a lost part of us, think about transit portals onto the Galactic center, Transit portals of Pluto conjunct Union and/or Venus conjunct Neptune. Read more about transit portals (from own observation).
The ways how the birthchart will indicate one to strand on the twinflame journey in this life, is rather tricky, but i have my thoughts on this, either one has personal planets on 29°, the more planets, the more turbulence. Twinflames are often located in very different placed on earth, that makes them foreigners in most cases, so the Northnode in a strong connection to the 9th house or Sagittarius would make sense. This also applies to Northnode in relation to the 8th house as this is an indication of a natal promise to find the meaning of soul union in this incarnation. A dominant Venus by strength and dignity. One could potentially have a conjunction to Neptune of either Venus or Mars, but again, be critical in your conclusions, i do NOT sate any of these natal indications to be the actual indications for Twinflames are rare, so that means the indication should be a rather uncommon occurance in the birthchart. So these things are experiments, not theoretical facts.
One’s Sun/Moon midpoint conjunct the ASC ruler of the other indicates a strong contact between two people, but whether this is a Twinflame indication, has to be researched …
Within the journey I travel with my Twinflame, there are several things that keep repeating. Such as our solar return charts that have the same angles, every single year. Our Nameasteroids are strong and prominent in both charts and kinda point in the same direction. every single chart that i look at, shows the same themes. We have our lunar returns on the same day, our mothers have the same name, and we too, have the same name.