Name Asteroids

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Nameasteroids offer an entirely new lens on relational astrology, one that goes far beyond synastry and composite charts. Their meanings aren’t decorative or optional. They carry a different kind of transmission that may be harsh to those seeking romanticism, comfort, and eternity.

The astrological chart is the clockwork and mechanism behind reality. It reveals what we don’t know or hide, and it explains coincidence as typed signals moving across more than one layer at once. Nameasteroids expose a layer of reality we have barely begun to see, and it makes sense that they only recently entered the astrological community through the work of Demetra George.

Nameasteroids are the perfect example of interconnectedness and indirect influence. You may have noticed names in aspect that don’t seem to make sense at all, yet what moves in their life, moves in ours.

In my nameasteroid work, I focus on the ontological redefinition of each factor in the horoscope, because to name is to identify. There is no practical use in words such as “houses, signs, planets, angles” when nobody understands what that actually implies. “Chair” or “knife,” on the other hand, lands in human (neurodivergent) cognition; we know what it is and what it is for. This is the foundation on which all else is built.

My work is rooted in translating the complete relational script encoded in a name, because a name is all we need. Nameasteroids offer an update of astrological interpretation that is aligned with the current zeitgeist, where connection and influence happen at a distance, indirectly, or as one-way traffic. We can be the witness of another person’s life or expression, and that alone can initiate a deeper personal unfolding. No astrological tool carried the right dialect for these experiences, but my work with nameasteroids proves otherwise.

Demetra George laid the revolutionary foundation by bringing nameasteroids into collective awareness.
I took it steps further. As far as I know, I’m the only astrologer using nameasteroids as a primary method, replacing all previous approaches to relational astrology.

I’ll offer new definitions for the astrological wheel once this project reaches completion. Some of these might surprise you. Until then, I’ll be sharing the foundational insights that have emerged through years of ongoing, daily analysis.

If you wish to share anything from this page, please credit my work accordingly.

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You can find and check the nameasteroids in your chart via Astro.com

At first glance, you might notice striking coincidences, like someone’s name placement matching their Sun sign, or a name appearing in the house that mirrors their role in your life, such as a family member’s name landing in your 4th house. But it’s never that simple.

IMPORTANT : The interpretations provided on this webpage don’t scratch the surface of their actual meaning, and are therefore basic. In depth information, guidance, insights, solutions,… will be provided in the nameasteroid book to protect my work.

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The basics of the NameAsteroids By Eva-Desiree/PlutonicDesire

Nameasteroid	Complete relational script/process (not relational label) Content bearing package through which natal content moves No personal contact needed: proxy, relay, omen, timing key Personalized relational purpose Enters where tension already exists What moves in theirs, moves in ours “Who”
House	Objective situation Generates and responds to circumstance Pre-existing conditions before the name enters/contact Where symbols manifest as circumstance The area of life where the relational story unfolds “Where”
Sign	Subjective situation Mode of pressure/experience/encounter with reality & truth Metabolic & internal tempo Embodied response style: hw we act/react Perceptual orientation Desire/drive logic: pulled towards/away from “How”
Planets	Instruments Specify which instrument s being used by the relational field Implements function that is being enacted Luminaries: reference instruments Planets: action instruments Inner planets: personal moves, handling Outer planets: reality weather, operating conditions “What”
Asteroids	Constraint operators that narrow interaction’s possibilities Non-optional conditional clause into the relational field Largely independent of intent or role Specialized scripts/protocols Where we meet moral tests, lessons, challenges “Condition” “Constrained by…”
Nodes	Default vs alternate direction Index and latch nodes
Angles	Ledgers, gates Admission, storage, elicitation, registration Where stuff becomes real Often deeply symbolic experiences that stretch through time
Aspect	Delivery mechanism Aspects quality activated through relationship: we meet the aspects essence
Degree	Differentiations Specific version of the sign’s expression we live Calibrations: entry, visibility, load, status, closure
Ruler	Formalizer, remainder, residue Describes the after form of the relationship Determines the settlement mechanism and form of closure “What’s left behind”

Conjunction = Conflate, attach, confer, alias, echo, splice
Sextile = Facilitate, connect, brokerage, access, synchronize, permit
Square = Interfere, dislocate, jeopardy, divide, press
Trine = Amplify, receive, augment, orchestrate, carry (into visibility)
Opposite = Polarize, contrast, culminate, split, counter position
Quincunx = Misalign, disorient, trade-offs, adjust
Semisextile = Emerge, prefigure, reveal, track

• Use tight orbs : 0-4 degrees

The ruler is the formalizer of the bond and indicates what remains as after-form.

Nameasteroids announce their entrance into our life through ‘coincidence’. Before we meet them, circumstances align to make it possible. So in essence, nameasteroids are the gateway to be “ahead of fate”, but with that, comes responsibility.

Nameasteroids are interwoven with the natal promise. Therefore significant relationships are often connected to ‘difficult’ placements in the natal chart, such as the northnode, signs whose ruler is challenged, houses with difficult placements or association with 0° or 29°,…
However, it is advised to consider the Natal promise first before judging or making any assumptions.

If you can’t find the name you’re looking for :
• Use a different spelling        
• Explore translations or equivalents of the name in other languages
• Consider a variant with comparable phonics or spelling
• Use a nickname
• Use their last/middle name
• Use the male/female version
• Asteroid number that resonates with the person

List of name asteroids (Astro.com)
List of name asteroids : complete overview

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Name asteroids in aspect

Sun = Core identity activator. They illuminate who we are or who we are becoming. Meeting them can trigger self-recognition, ego inflation, or purpose crises. These people reflect or challenge the native’s central vitality and life direction. Often linked to solar pride, ambition, or the need to be seen.

Moon = Emotional regulator or disrupter. They trigger primal safety needs, attachment wounds, or caregiving dynamics. Their presence often reveals unprocessed family history or unconscious emotional defaults. The bond feels familiar, maternal, or regressive, like home, but also like exposure.

Mercury = Mental stimulant or disruptor. They awaken specific thoughts, ideas, fixations, or internal dialogue loops. Communication becomes symbolic. They often carry news, facilitate a decision, or reveal hidden data. May arrive through writing, messages, or mental telepathy.

Venus = Mirror of desire and value. They evoke beauty, longing, jealousy, or self-worth questions. These people often bring both attraction and insecurity, exposing our style of love, aesthetic preference, or relational projection. They can crystallize our romantic ideals or expose how we bargain for love.

Mars = Provoker of will, conflict, or libido. These people ignite our fight, sexuality, assertion, or resistance. They might catalyze a personal rupture, confrontation, or burst of courage. Mars contacts often mark the beginning of a test of action: do we pursue, protect, or sever?

Jupiter = Expander of belief and contradiction. They amplify our worldview, challenge our moral compass, or expose entitlement, arrogance, or inflated ideals. These people often arrive during moments of internal expansion or self-overreach. Their presence pushes us to reconcile internal contradictions, between abundance and restraint, freedom and responsibility. They can symbolize blessings or reveal where we overestimate ourselves.

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Saturn = Limiter and lawgiver. These people impose time, consequence, or authority. They often appear when we must face boundaries, endings, or delayed outcomes. They symbolize responsibility, repression, or the long arc of consequence. Through them, we encounter shame, structure, or the final word.

Uranus = Discontinuity. These figures bring shock, rupture, or awakening. Their entry often corresponds with sudden change, psychic liberation, or a break from what was. They reflect where our lives are restructured by the unexpected. Their presence is electric, destabilizing, or liberating.

Neptune = Dissolver of ego/illusion. These people blur lines between self and other, dream and reality. Their presence may enchant or drown us in longing, addiction, fantasy, or spiritual merging. They impose surrender through confusion, often forcing us to see where we lost sight of truth.

Pluto = Compressor or hydraulic press. These figures arrive with themes of power, compulsion, loss, or obsession. Their impact is subterranean and transformational, often triggering survival fears or profound rebirth. They destroy false structures to reveal hidden truth, whether or not we are ready.

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Psyche = Reveals what something means to our inner identity. Often initiates a soul-level test of recognition, vulnerability, or idealization.

Eros = Reveals what or who becomes the object of wanting, orientation, or pursuit. Push us into instinct, pleasure, or self-expression, sometimes against our own defenses.

Pholus = Trigger of the untamed. These people uncork repressed material. Their influence can be catalytic, spiraling, or wildly disproportionate to the event. Follow the breadcrumbs (can spread across decades). They often appear when ancestral patterns, addictions, or karmic taboos are released or exposed through small, irreversible acts.

Sado = Brings load and strain that cannot be neutralized by intent, care, or behavior; only carried, adapted to, or exited. Can reflect themes of dominance, submission, sadism, or control. They may represent relational cruelty, punishment, or power games, but also teach where we consent, collapse, or reclaim sovereignty through pressure.

Union = Connected by a third thing/term, a shared structure, even if we don’t want to. These people can show us where we attempt fusion, whether through partnership, collaboration, or projection. They test our capacity to meet another on equal ground, and reveal where we over-identify with relational ideals or shared identity.

Nessus = Boundary breach and integrity tests. Where “no” is ignored, power used sideways, something taken, forced, manipulated, or made unsafe. Covers secondary exposure; being the witness, receiver of disclosure, the person who has to document, report, protect, or escalate. These bonds often carry the echo of abuse, betrayal, or toxic fixation (whether in them or us). They may not actively harm us, but often carry residue from collective or familial wounding. Their presence initiates cycles of reckoning, boundary collapse, or soul-level confrontation with harm.

Lilith = Shadow exposure; what’s disowned, taboo, or repressed. These bonds surface where we are cast out, defiant, or demonized. They often mark the place where feminine rage, independence, or sexuality was punished or made taboo. Lilith people press the hidden wound of refusal, and the reclamation that follows. Typically seen in cases where exposure happens through breach (with evidence when sextile).

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ASC = Admission. Something crosses from outside/background into close range (in reach, in your face,..).

IC = Storage. Baseline capacity, the place where life saved the default settings and gets stored so later reality can pull it back up through intermediaries, dreams, body signals, or delayed reveals. Can feel like ‘foreshadowing’ in hindsight, we meet the root of something that we’ll encounter again.

DSC = Elicit. Relational reality gets drawn out and forced into explicitness; stance, shadow, need, terms, bergain, or limit through presence of an Other as person or proxy. Often brings out what people don’t comfortably own or admit. It can literalize what stands upon it, and what is said or introduced can become concretely lived later.

MC = Register. It makes something externally addressable.

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Name asteroids in the house

The houses are the objective situation, they generate and respond to circumstance, including symbolism and coincidence. The houses always activate first and prime ‘the field’ for the entrance of the name, whether this is direct or indirect. The houses carry the pre-existing conditions, such as our concerns, the unconscious desires we hold, and by which life responds through the name. We can tell a house is active when events happen around the nameasteroids that are present there, this is why people are omens and more than relational statuses.

The house itself is the domain of life where the complete relational script/storyline unfolds, for instance, a name in the 7th house, will always be a relationship that revolves around 7th house topics, events will always involve 7th house content, and so any relational change with another means a change in dynamic or circumstance with the name too. But do not confuse the 7th house with marriage potential for that is the utter bullshit layer of human narrow minded perception.

All names that reside in one house are all interconnected; this does not mean they know one another nor does it predict these names will meet one another, it simply means that what moves with one, moves with another and the (inner) storyline connects them. E.g. trauma bonding with one name, but another name being the source of it. An event with one occurring in the same time window as the other name. Etc.

Some people arrive to live the story with us, while others carry the story we must witness. A nameasteroid in a house means they arrive in rhythm with our inner readiness or resistance. What remains after the encounter, whether a scar, a vow, or a deeper truth, is where the gold lives.

1st House
A mirror of projected identity, they define who we must become in response to their existence. These people claim a psychic seat in the front row of our becoming and the paradox of survival in the performance of being seen. You may declare something about love or belonging that feels true but untested. Like a personal truth spoken before living its consequences, a claim without experience. Be mindful when feeling raw, because you might get it, only to know the weight of it. Personal boundaries often blur, you may feel as though you’ve become one with the other. What lingers is a shift in how you see yourself, and how you present yourself to the world. It’s about selfhood, something is revealed that you didn’t know you carried, didn’t know belonged to you. A part of you is returned through encounter.

2nd House
They always distill a relational economy about what we give away reflexively, what we try to keep, and what we later realize we cannot afford. It tests emotional currency and how much of the self is guarded or traded. The soul begins to speak through the body when value, safety, or containment is breached. What is hidden, becomes tangible. Some become anchors of loyalty, others the reason we build walls. Some remain just long enough to echo us, delayed, distorted, or hollow. We confuse this echo for validation, but it is only our own longing thrown back at us. If we do not possess ourselves, we project our worth into their silence, mistaking the echo for recognition. In the end, they shape our priorities through the reevaluation of our attachments.

3rd House
The turning of the tables and another point of view. What’s spoken, argued, mimicked, or rejected. Often, you’ll relive a script you’ve been through before, so that you can redefine and sharpen discernment. To meet them is to meet a cognitive twin, ghost, or disruptor, sent to awaken perception, distort it, or destroy the syntax altogether. They name the script we didn’t know we were reading from. Until we change the language, they remain. It is about rewriting, knowing when and what to express, the power of both words and silence, and what remains is perspective. The synchronicity is merely the part of your own story that you haven’t read. Things seem familiar, but it echoes a known voice, rhythm, behavior, or mental loop. They are marked by “on repeat”, until you understand it.

4th House
They bring back or stir something buried, suspended, unspoken, or forgotten. It re-enters the system through them. Whether early or later in life, the unnamed begins to take shape as if only now something starts to resonate or become explicit. What we couldn’t quite grasp before comes into focus, with enough weight to finally be recognized and defined. They are arrivals of inner disarray within the emotional base, the flashback, the regression, the emotional need. They simply unearth what has always belonged to you or what has always lived within. They inhabit, something is carried, but in the end, the lesson is about containment, to root whatever is returned.

5th house
The language of the heart and the shadow of longing is made visible. These relationships are defined by symbolic casting, and they mirror the self through reversal or projected desire, where the same feelings reemerge. The self is shaped by what it reaches for. These relationships embody the myth of erotic will, performative fixation, and emotional combustion. They come to crown, corrupt, or crucify the heart’s expression, castmates in our most volatile inner drama, carrying the script we secretly wrote about being chosen, admired, betrayed, or exceptional. But what is born from this connection, will endure. They ignite what must be seen and what remains, is your signature of self, style, performance, or creation. It’s about knowing what you love, how you love, and how you receive love.

6th house
They break, regulate, or rewrite our system. Often, among the more difficult relationships, due to an inherent incompatibility in individuals lifestyles, rhythms, routines, personal needs. We work around them, work because of them, or work to forget them. They enter where we are weak, and leave something permanent in how we survive. Unconscious material moves through these bonds. The omens are often explicit and precise. When structures break down, pay attention. It signals that something can’t continue the way it was, like Miley Cyrus’s house burning down while she was with Liam. Reality translates what you refuse to acknowledge. Yes, these connections can be beautiful and functional, but often only after a real adjustment is made, without slipping into overcompensation. Otherwise, the cycle of interruption returns. The goal is to build a system that’s sustainable, one that truly supports those involved.

7th house
A true mirror field, what you encounter in others is your own inner content projected outward, the soul on display. Don’t be misled by synchronicities for they don’t guarantee union. They’re invitations back to yourself. In romantic contexts, many believe they’ve found “the one,” but this is the test of the 7th house. Eventually, you’ll be confronted with your own reflection, and changed by what you see. It’s about recognition, clarity, transparency. They bring you in contact with what you need in a relationship, but they also expose what you don’t dare to admit and vice versa. The pitfall is staying longer than necessary. What you don’t own, you’ll see outside of yourself, until you take it back. What’s false, will return to prove itself through reversal. In the end, it’s about symmetry and the distillation of what’s real, but to achieve that, distance is often necessary to dissolve the projection.

8th house
The most intense relationships often take place here, they unearth. They are typically characterized by a duplication of mutual lack. One has what the other doesn’t and vice versa. They touch what is buried and fundamentally alter who you are. Charged unions that bring themes or eroticism, ancestral residue, trauma, or taboo, and awaken shadow material. Even when love is real, it burns away illusion. These relationships are impossible without collapse for it is the whole reason we you meet them. There is something within that must be redefined, metabolized, transmuted, and changed forever. Listen to the body, for it will speak as somatic feedback.

9th house
These are the people that expand worldview, but also test your ability to know when and what to share, claim, expect, or believe. Excitement may be faster than discernment. Truth is not given, it is earned through lived experience. It may only make sense once distance has done its work, as the truth travels and will arrive in a way that’s unexpected, in ways that require symbolic thinking and decoding beyond human language alone. It reveals the limits of the current, looping as a refracted timeline, a premature expression of what has not yet been lived, a future self arriving too soon, or a past relived through another. In the end, it’s about orientation, sometimes about symbolic cognition.

10th house
The ones that often give reason, but also those who change the direction with a clear before and after effect. It brings themes of comparison, performance, consequence, and often lasting associations. Substitution is a common theme, where they may step in where another failed, wasn’t equipped for what’s ahead, or one paves the way for what’s to come. There’s often an age gap, one being more established than the other, or a symbolic parenting. The relationship may be more about necessity than romanticism, meant to change trajectory, power, image, loyalty. Through them, something becomes visible, broadcast, named.

11th house
A future that speaks before we have the tools to translate them. These are often the relationships that fail when we demand or expect too much, when one’s will is imposed, but that is exactly what they come to test. They are marked by utopian possibility, falling in love with an image beyond who the other truly is, only to meet the reality and sober up. It is the placement where desire must mature, or it ruptures and fractures the vision we once had. These relationships are often larger than those involved, where you are tested in what you are willing to contribute to, beyond ego. It is about clarifying that vision, ensuring it is grounded. Omens are coded, and can often only be translated in ways that defy current methods.

12th house
Time and distance dissolves. These relationships are untimely, ahead of conscious form, often ‘too soon’, ‘at a young age’ or ‘premature’. Themes of personal and private suffering are common, whether as something we carry or something we witness, and it tests what we do we it, how we navigate it, how we grow from it. We experience something, with them, because of them, through them, and it may make no sense at first for it arrives prior to spiritual development. Out of all the names that appear in our 12th house, there is at least one as the imprint-holder, and the seed of that theme is buried in our story, something that its beyond the current. It may carry the echo of what the soul has not metabolized or integrated yet.

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Ways to Interpret the NameAsteroids

Nameasteroids can be applied the moment someone enters our awareness, even if they’re a stranger or we have no personal relationship with them. Small realizations often arise through brief or random encounters. Think about the era we live in:
we scroll through endless faces and names, and suddenly, a reel appears, someone who expresses, explains, or embodies something that instantly triggers a response in you. That’s not coincidence. That’s nameasteroid code in motion. This is why nameasteroids belong to the current evolutionary process of humanity. As evolution accelerates, our methods and translations must evolve with us.

I have consistently applied nameasteroids to placidus house system, as it offers a more psychologically grounded and personal approach to the horoscope. However, you’re free to experiment with other house divisions.

Nameasteroids by Sign :
The signs are the subjective situation, it is how the complete relational script/storyline feels. It reveals the metabolic and experiental tempo (e.g. names in Scorpio have long duration, it is a pilgrimage often with multiple repetitions where the same stuff is re-encountered, these are relationships that permanently and fundamentally change something. It takes a long time to digest/integrate experiences. Taurus, known for limbo situations especially in romantic bonds)

The sign is the second thing that activates along with the house; compare it like knocking on the house’s door, and then the lord of that house wakes up; the sign.

The sign of the name shows the thematic content of what they bring, trigger, activate into our life, even when the name doesn’t do anything and just exists or passes through our life briefly. Typically, it is us, as the native, who have to learn to integrate the positive qualities of that sign by being confronted with its lessons, challenges, limits, and style.

The sign is part of our introspective journey and encourages self-reflection as one of the purposes; Do we engage with this person through the positive or negative qualities of that sign? The sign adds a distinct “flavor” to the individual’s presence, often seen through typical traits that the native perceives most vividly, sometimes even as the preferred way of seeing them. Like house placements, the sign placement offers insight into how well we understand or relate to the sign’s energy. For instance, a nameasteroid in Scorpio may evoke obsessive thoughts or deep jealousy in the native, reflecting Scorpio’s lower vibrational traits, suggesting that learning to release control or old grudges are key to growth and success. Thus, the sign can bring forth stereotypical expressions and recurring issues that prevail throughout the entire relationship: a name in Scorpio? The relationship will always bring up Scorpio themes until the end of life. (that’s why synastry seems outdated in my opinion; too much information that does not get to the point; ‘but why did I meet this person exactly?’)

Nameasteroids by degree :
There are several astrological methods we can apply to interpret the degree of a nameasteroid. The degree theory developed by Nikola Stojanovic often proves relevant, though typically in a symbolic way. For example, 7° is associated with themes like jewelry, fashion, etiquette, September, and floral motifs. These themes may emerge in the narrative and serve as symbolic cues, revealing how certain elements, objects, places, or people signal hidden messages within the story. This was observed in the case of Shani Louk, where the asteroid Gaza appeared at 8° Capricorn. According to degree theory, 8° corresponds to the desert, the Middle East, sandy terrains, underground spaces, October. From this lens, the 8th degree offered both forensic and symbolic insight. Other systems, such as the Sabian symbols, can also be applied to nameasteroids as additional layers of symbolic meaning.

I’m working on the 30 individual translations of each degree and the kind of reality it selects. This will be shared in my upcoming book for it is still in development.

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More about asteroids :

The asteroids
Love Asteroids 

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Feel free to share your experiences!