Questions about Twinflames, answered from personal perspective and experiences.
How do you recognize each other?
I personally recognized my half through music. It was solely by a specific feeling that was put into his music in which i recognized the vibe completely as my own. Often i call it the melody of my heart and soul. The recognition was a blind one in our case, we had no clue what we looked like.
Other ways how we recognize each other is the eyes, something is incredibly familiar, and to me it loudly speaks ‘husband’, which is our shared memory from a past life. We recognize each other by our voices too, something in the vibration, the sound, the way of building sentences feels like a knowing, a ‘i have heard this before’.
What happens when you have a fight?
Fights are equally as intense as the way we drown each other in affection. But there is always a turning point in which we both calm down and start to appreciate something small in which feelings of warmth arise again. Fights end up creating deeper understanding of both our past wounding, no cell in both of us can stay angry, the love simply is to bright, naturally.
How does sex feel with your otherhalf?
It reminds me alot of having sex with myself but than in another body. The natural vibe is tantric, no effort is needed to create this. Simple eyecontact make your genital juices flow like an ocean. Both seem to intuitively know how to touch each other, there is a shared rhythm in dynamic, in the flow of the act. The mind is completely out of the picture as everything comes naturally. Both like the same things and act upon it simultaneously. It feels like melting into one.
Funny thing that keeps popping in my head when thinking about oral sex, is that we feel so connected that it reminds me of a human centipede. Equally enjoying shared pleasure, whether i’m giving or receiving. It feels like the ultimate level of love. the division of masculine vs feminine doesn’t exist, it’s one big explosion of androgyne but fluffy soul. The most craziest things, suddenly become easy and normal, shame does not exist. What’s really powerful for me personally is that this whole idea of ‘what the heck do i look like in that position’, fully dissolves, which is incredibly liberating and healing.
What’s it like to live together?
I personally don’t have experience with this, only had a 2 and a half week timeframe of having the opportunity to share a living situation together. This was also when we met for the first time in the physical world, so everything was incredibly intense and overwhelmingly calm in a strange way. It felt very natural to live together, but i assume it also depends a bit on who you both are individually. We both like isolation, to do things alone, we had moments in which we didn’t do any activity together, but it didn’t feel awkward either.
What does it feel like to meet your twinflame for the first time?
For us there were many first meetings. We first met in our dreams, which we both had in the same period. Both of us felt homesick for a while and the dreams were completely the same in terms of location, atmosphere and things that took place. 5 years later we had a second meeting, which was virtually. We both felt intensely curious and attracted to spend time together through messages, which increasingly became hours of nonstop communication. This is how we fell in love. It feels like cigarettes underneath a nightsky, naked and tight hugs in a grassfield while the sun is setting, it feels like playing your favorite song on repeat on a quiet sunny sunday morning, it feels like reuniting with a lost family member, it feels like reuniting with a missing puzzle piece of yourself,..
Our 3rd meeting was the official meeting, which happened another 4 years later. This was when we finally got to experience each other through our senses in the real world. I remember feeling incredibly strong, proud and alive sitting next to my half, i felt ‘finally’, it felt like real peace.
Is there ever any jealousy?
For me personally, there has never been any sort of jealousy. I blindly trust our shared love, as it is AnCiEnT.
I think for him it’s the same way, deep down he knows he got me on the most valuable part of me, my soul.
What to do when you’re not his type?
In my case, my otherhalf is both my type and not my type at all. But it’s the soul connection that makes him completely my type. Nobody is ever perfect in any way, eventho it really feels like that. There are certain things that i don’t really like so much, but the love is not physical, i am in love with his soul and this transcends everything.
Do you have telepathic communication?
We have had several experience of telepathic interaction, which is often something like thinking the same, guessing what’s on the other person’s mind. what often happens is that we do things a the same time without knowing it from eachother, and than eventually discover it and everything instantly makes sense to us.
Do you feel eachother when you’re not together?
Yes, but for me it feels like it comes in periods, it’s not a constant but this might be linked to some personal processes that i am going through. I remember one time when we were still separated in distance, we were in bed having nighttime calls, and all of a sudden i could feel his heart inside my own chest. Something he told me is that i feel like i am in a room next to his when we are in physical separation, i have to say i often feel the same way. he feels closeby all the time eventho we live at the complete opposite parts of Europe.
How does your environment respond onto your union?
Since the beginning of time, i have been talking about my half to the people close to me. i never managed to shut up, i never wanted to either. When i talk about him, my eyes sparkle, they shine and speak love. I have showed some pictures/videos of us together also at times to friends, and often times they pick up on our vibe and sense an overwhelmingly cute and passionate energy. People seem to recognize something powerful exists between us, so i think it’s rather noticeable that we are something something, more than mundane.