There are several indications in the birthchart to see & understand an individual’s sexual style.
1) Mars : Drive & action
2) Lilith : Fantasies & darkside
3) Eros : Turn-ons
Mars in the signs
Aries : Dominant – Daddy-Mommy – Primal // Quick
Taurus : Daddy-Mommy – Owner – Foodsex – Ropeplay // Sensual
Gemini : Dirty talk – Ploy – Gay – Swinger – Sexting // Playful
Cancer : Submissive – Little – Tits – Oral // Nurturing
Leo : Performer – Mister-Mistress – Sextape – Sugar // Fiery
Virgo : Mentor – Slave – Pet – Anal // Serving
Libra : Romantic – Bottom – Submissive // Gentle
Scorpio : Switch – Powerplay – Dominant – SadoMasochist // Soulful
Sagittarius : Exhibitionist – Nudist – Voyeur // Adventurous
Capricorn : Master-Mistress – Powerplay – Sadist // Longlasting
Aquarius : Roleplay – Chatsex – Freak // Perverted
Pisces : Brat – Experimentalist – Submissive – Feetfetish // Romantic
Lilith in the signs
Very dominant by impulse. Fiercely competitive and independent. Can be ruthlessly aggressive. Wants it now or not at all. Must learn to control their extreme passions.
Irresistable, incredibly sensual. They love sex and affection and will do almost everything for pleasure. Must learn to control their sensuality and possessiveness.
They are never satisfied. Very curious, superficial and skeptical. A bit childish. They have extreme moodswings. They must learn to communicate about what they want.
Very submissive and highly intuitive. They can become emotionally manipulative. Suffer with intense separation anxiety. They must learn to find independence.
Narcissism, attention seeking and mirrors turn them on (so they can watch themselves perform). Sex is performing to them. Must learn to tame the ego.
Obsessive perfectionist. Sexual servant, enjoys degrading sex. Suffers from sexual shame and repression. Must learn to overcome feelings of guilt.
Incredibly seductive. Irresistable charm. Must learn to accept people as they are.
Incredibly seductive, hunting down lovers like prey. Hauntingly erotic sex. Obsessive and jealous. Must learn the value of trust.
Wants everything in excess. Easily aroused. Must learn to have faith.
Completely ruthless. Become bitter and ice cold when hopes and desires are not met. Career is often connected to sex. Must learn to draw a line between emotions and ambitions.
Sexual rebel. Outspoken and obsessed with freedom. Must learn empathy.
Fantasy over reality. Submissive, voyeurism. Sex is their escape. Deeply repressed emotions. Must learn to draw a line between reality and fantasy.
Eros in the signs
Aries : Intensely passionate, spontaneous attractions, need for excitement
Taurus : Monogamous, Primal affection, scent, tendency to possess
Gemini : Foreplay, dirty talk, mental stimulation
Cancer : Sex is nurturing, intuitive, caring and tender
Leo : Loves to be worshiped, affairs, passion, drama
Virgo : Sober, need for mutual intellect and approach to sex
Libra : Romantic, submissive, very focused onto the partner
Scorpio : Mystery, sexual merging, transformative experience, primal
Sagittarius : Sex is sport, optimistic approach, adventurous
Capricorn : Needs cooperation & hardworking partners are seen as sexy
Aquarius : Need for odd things, mental approach, pure and raw
Pisces : Sex is a spiritual act, desire to be needed, self-sacrifice
The Descendant in the natal chart gives more information on what an individual wants and needs within sex,
how they act.
Fire DSC : Enjoys performing, involved in sexual activities. Takes a long time to climax
Earth DSC : Practical and sober
Air DSC : Secret liking for sex. Trying to conceal their sexual feelings.
Water DSC : Highly passionate, Not very sex oriented.
• Movable/ Dual Signs : Native likes to separate immediately after sex
• Fixed signs : Native likes to remain in deep embrace after sex
Mars conjunct or trine Uranus : Kinky
Mars conjunct Venus : Sexy and magnetic
Mars conjunct Northnode : Nymphomaniac
Mars conjunct Pluto : Powerful, dominant and very passionate
Mars square Venus : Dominant, not a very feministic sexual style
Mars opposite Uranus : Unconventional desires, kinky
Venus conjunct Northnnode : Never really satisfied
Sun conjunct Pluto : Dominant
Sun conjunct Northnode : Strong masculine energy
Lilith conjunct Uranus : Unconventional desires
Planets in the 7th house :
• Sun : Aggressive in sex
• Moon : Excitement and readiness for sex
• Mercury : Premature ejaculation or nervous exhaustion
• Venus : Love for sex, Very aroused
• Mars : Vigorious and impatient
• Jupiter : Engagement in ardent love
• Saturn : Cool sex and mean outlook on sex union
• Uranus : Independent and unconventional in sex
• Neptune : Sex addicted
• Pluto : Obsessive desires and very dominant
• Northnode : Unsatisfied, sex for exchange
• Southnode : Hypersensitive, premature discharge