Planetary house overlays
The planets through the houses in Synastry.
UNDER CONSTRUCTION
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Moon
1st house :
A feeling of immediate comfort and mutual caring. There is a true feeling of acceptance of one another. The way your partner presents him/herself and behaves gives you a great amount of security and emotional-well being. Your moods tend to blend together. The house person easily picks up the moods and feelings of the Moon person and instinctively knows how to comfort and console the Moon person.
2nd house :
Your partner feels immediately safe around you because of the emotional security you provide to them. You will help your partner develop their natural skills and talents. your partner may become dependent on you for security. You have a tremendous influence over the house person’s self-esteem and values.
3rd house :
your partner feels very comfortable sharing his or her emotions with you. You know how to naturally soothe your partner through words, which provides great comfort to your partner. You greatly admire the way your partner thinks and communicates. This aspect also indicates a potential telepathic link between the two of you.
4th house :
your partner feels immediately comfortable with you. You know how to make your partner feel safe and secure. Your partner might strongly desire living together and building a family with you. This aspect is highly binding, and it is very difficult for the two of you to separate. The two of you may even become completely emotionally dependent on one another. This aspect is especially strong if your Moon is close to your partner’s IC = soulmates
5th house :
you stimulate your partner’s desire for pleasure; your partner sees you as someone they can have a good time with. Your partner loves being at the centre of your attention, and you love being the one to provide them with the romance and fun they desire. The two of you enjoy socializing and going out together. You stimulate your partner’s creative side, and you will help them cultivate their creativity.
6th house :
As the Moon person, you feel emotionally involved, and even responsible, for managing your partner’s daily life. You love to take care of your partner, and do so by performing practical tasks for them. You have an instinctive understanding of what your partner needs. Over time, your partner may become dependent on you in regards to issues relating to organization, diet, exercise, and work habits.
7th house :
This is a fairly common aspect to find in the charts of married partners. This aspect is especially strong if your Moon is close to your partner’s Descendant. the two of you are instinctively aware of one another’s feelings. The two of you are highly attracted to one another, and draw each other in like magnets. The way you express your emotions is highly attractive to your partner. The relationship might be characterized by several ups and downs, due to the fact that you are so strongly attuned to one another’s moods.
8th house :
You know how to get under their skin. You bring out emotions from your partner they never knew they had! Your partner experiences the depths and power of true intimacy and emotional bonding with you. The two of you are irresistibly attracted to one another. The two of you may also become obsessed with knowing each other’s secrets. The relationship will have a transformative effect on the both of you. Proceed with caution when you see this aspect in synastry.
9th house :
This synastry placement suggests that you stimulate your partner’s optimism. You easily tune into your partner’s spiritual side. You have respect for eachother. Your partner encourages you to be more open to new experiences and perspectives. If your partner comes from a different religious background, you may try to convert them to your own religion. The two of you derive emotional satisfaction from travel and philosophical exchanges.
10th house :
Your partner admires you greatly. If the Moon person is a woman, your partner is definitely enchanted by you! You provide support and guidance to your partner to achieve their goals and dreams, and your partner looks up to you as a role model. On the downside, you may find that the emotional issues surrounding your relationship are constantly on display; This position suggests that your career and social standing will have a huge impact on your partner’s emotional well being, your family, and your home life.
11th house :
This aspect suggests that the two of you may have met through friends, or the two of you have many friends in common. Either way, you likely hit it off immediately! Throughout your relationship, your partner may introduce you to a wide variety of interesting people. The two of you enjoy spending a good deal of time together. You feel naturally accepted by your partner, and vice-versa. Your partner is likely to see you as a good friend, and may even become emotionally dependent on your friendship.
12th house :
the two of you share a strong intuitive, psychic, and spiritual link. You are keenly aware of each other’s moods and feelings. The two of you are highly compassionate and sensitive to one another. This may make your partner feel uncomfortable, as the 12th house represents the area of our life we would rather keep to ourselves. your partner may feel that you can see right into your soul! The two of you can easily read each other’s feelings; you just get each other. You may trigger unconscious emotional responses in your partner, surprising you both!
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Venus
1st house :
Also known as ‘love at first sight’ The closer Venus is to the ascendant. You both have a lot in common. You have a way of making your Partner feel attractive, and confident around you. The house person may feel like they have met their “ideal” this is assuming there is a mutual attraction.The attraction from the house person is likely to be quite intense.
2nd house :
The Venus person makes the house person feel invaluable and uniquely talented and in return, the house person shows the Venus person appreciation by way of offering gifts or things of value. The Venus person is very complimenting to the house person increasing the house persons’self-esteem. You will likely indulge in the finer things in life, or at least bring out the desire in each other. This will likely be a very creative relationship, where you both will want to put your creativity together to make money.
3rd house :
You will respond to each other with grace and concern. This position can make you uncomfortable with verbal arguments and, therefore, you tend to gloss over any issues which are both good and bad. Venus will appreciate the house person for their keen mind and the house person feels appreciated. Venus here is often seen in couples that write love letters or leave notes and cards around, for each other. You will enjoy your communications with each other, showing similar interests in cerebral matters and the Venus person will stimulate the mind of the house person which can make their conversations dynamic and interesting.
4th house :
There may be many commonalities between the both of your families or early childhoods. You both may have family similarities in which you both can relate and this brings comfort, ease, and familiarity. This is a great placement for merging of families in situations such as long-term partnerships, deep friendships and love and marriage. Living together will be pleasant, and you will both enjoy having beautiful things of comfort in the home.
5th house :
The house person will adore the Venus person, always wanting to show her a good time. Fun, Love, and romance will be the theme of your relationship. This is a very affectionate place for Venus that adds a child-like quality to your affection for each other. This adds a light romantic playfulness to the interaction between the two of you. Holding hands and plenty of kissing and cuddling are a normal part of this position unless other aspects of the individual charts block the natural nature.
6th house :
The Venus person will help the house person find better and more efficient ways of doing things. Working together on the day to day activities, running errands, daily chores or working out together will be areas that bring the both of you pleasure doing together. The Venus person will enjoy assisting the house person and taking care of them in these areas.
7th house :
The house person sees the Venus person as their ideal mate if other attraction factors apply. Love and appreciation for one another are expressed with ease and you are both likely to be very supportive of each other’s long-term goals. You both feel better with each other. This is a genuine love and like of each other. The relationship should be based on equality and is highly beneficial for a long-term partnership if other aspects allow. Both take the relationship seriously. If this is a mutual love relationship then marriage is possible.
8th house :
The intimacy is deep, and sharing comes easily and naturally.
You will feel both emotionally and psychically bonded. Sex will be intense, passionate and emotionally fulfilling.
There will be a mutual interest in taboo subjects, the occult, mysteries, sex, and secrets.
You will discuss things with each other you might have difficulty with others. The house person will benefit monetarily and emotionally from the Venus person. You will share many secrets with one another that you dare not with others. You could become obsessed with eachother or to possessive.
9th house :
You both probably share a lot of the same interests, in areas of religion, beliefs, philosophy or travel. Honesty and truth are very important in your relationship. You will both enjoy searching for answers, researching conspiracies, or finding answers to life’s big questions. You will grow exponentially through your relationship because you are always seeking new experiences. You will both love to travel together.
10th house :
The house person is enamored with the Venus person and will find that the Venus person adds a bit of glamour to the relationship, the house person might like to be seen with the Venus person or they both appreciate the way in which others respond to them in public. There may be a bit of idealization of each other within the relationship. You both make each other look good, so this relationship will likely be public. There is much respect for each other, and even admiration.
11th house :
You get along famously. You will simply love hanging out, chatting and having fun together. You both have a lot in common and just simply like each other. However, if this is a love relationship the house person might treat the Venus person like a buddy. This depends on the level of comfort you both prefer and if this relationship is for the long run, then being best Friends is a good thing.
12th house :
The Venus person will be highly complimentative with the house person which will help increase their overall self-confidence. The house person will feel good with the Venus person and they will share a psychic connection that is quite powerful. It is possible that the house person may not trust the Venus person’s motives. This usually indicates a secret relationship of some sort, or you tend to be private. If the Venus person has good intentions and is a good person, they can help the house person uncover many of their hidden talents or parts of themselves they may not have been previously aware.
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Mars
1st house :
Your mars in your partners 1st house is a highly energized position. You tend to invigorate and energize your partner. There is much sexual attraction with this position. The Mars person especially if a woman would be highly attracted to the house person. The house person will find the Mars person someone that will not be pushed around and will find that sexy. The Mars person is typically the aggressor when it comes to sex and the house person feels very sexy because of this.
2nd house :
There is usually a mutual respect or appreciation for one an other’s talents and going into a business together might prove profitable. The Mars person might stimulate new money-making opportunities or ideas for the house person in which they may benefit from. The Mars person will also see the house persons many talents and take an interest in whether or not they use them. Mars will likely want to talk money and business or in the negative cost the house person money. Regardless the house person will likely be quite generous to the Mars person because they feel much more confident around them.
3rd house :
This is a very talkative or chatty position for Mars so depending on how both people relate will depict how this truly plays out. It is possible that the house person may find the Mars person to aggressive when communicating, over talking or talking more than listening. However, if both people are conscious or mindful then this can be a very stimulating aspect.
4th house :
Both people will spend much of their time talking about home or family. Both people might have similarities in the way they were both raised or there may be strikingly similar things about one another that reminds them of home, early childhood or a family member. There will probably be a strong, desire to set up home together and if you both live together your family life will be invigorating.
5th house :
This is usually a very romantic, passionate and playful position for Mars. The Mars person will stimulate the house persons sense of fun, and play inducing laughter and love. You will enjoy spending much of your time being playful. You both will spark one an others creativity but will also encourage one another to express it openly. You will be very supportive of one an others natural expression, this is a very encouraging placement. Sex will be passionate, and having children may be on your minds, when the time is right.
6th house :
The Mars person will stimulate the house person to take better care of themselves, or will be concerned about the house persons health and well being. The house person will provide the Mars person with more productive ways to utilize their time, perhaps by making more efficient suggestions. You will both want to take care of one another, and although your expression of affection might be more practical it is no less, meaningful. You will show your love for one another by caring practically for one another, in the day to day, health and perhaps of being of service always there to help.
7th house :
This placement stimulates the desire to partner, with one another but this house is not always romantic.This is the house of equal partnership, where you both decide to work together towards a mutual goal. If this is a romantic interaction then Marriage most certainly is possible, because you will both want to get serious, if other factors allow. You will both stimulate one another, by having a lot in common and perhaps many similar goals. On the negative the Mars person may be to aggressive with the house person, or argumentative however, being mindful of one another will make all the difference.
8th house :
This usually ignites much sexual attraction to one another, and a interest to dive deep into all things hidden and mysterious. Deep open sharing of all secrets are possible, and if both people are mature and mindful then the level of depth they can reach will be like no other, openly sharing all things both emotionally and materially. The Mars person may pry too much into the house persons psyche making them feel uncomfortable, or may use money as a way to keep the house person attached to them. It is also possible that the Mars person could dig to far, or turn the relationship to heavy to fast or the focus could be too much on sex and the darker more taboo subjects. Sex will be intense, risky and perhaps even taboo.
9th house :
Mars stimulates the house persons desire to explore and experience all things new. This shows common interests and similar philosophies, in which you will both enjoy travel, learning and exploring. This is a expansive, optimistic position for Mars which indicates much happiness in being together if other aspects allow.
10th house :
A strong desire to be public together, perhaps you both have similar career goals, or have similar ways in which you present yourself. The Mars person may help the house person reach new career goals, and will more than likely offer assistance. The Mars person will enjoy sharing ideas, but may also work as a promoter or PR for the house person in their career. The house person will appreciate the Mars person for their talents and may even admire them.
11th house :
You will both likely share a mutual set of friends or will enjoy intermixing your friends with one another. Mars person will feel accepted by the house person just as they are and a true friendship is very possible. In a romantic interaction this indicates the Mars person will be very supportive of the house person goals, hopes and wishes, you will both not only be lovers but also friends with many of the same, favorite past times and interests.
12th house :
This can be very good or very bad and it truly depends on the individuals involved, and their Karma. Typically the house person may be able to provide the Mars person with healing on a very deep level, by helping the house person over come the ways in which they may sabotage them self, or help them overcome their fears. However, the Mars person will have insights into the house persons unconscious, and can trigger old hurts and even encourage their hidden fears on the negative. You both can point out talents or strengths of the house person which may help them heal as well. This house is the house of undoing, and the nature of the people involved will tell you more about whether or not the interaction will be positive or not.
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Mercury
1st house :
You will inspire easy communication with your partner. The two of you will be quite talkative with each other. You both think a like and have much in common. Communication will be very important in your relationship together and you will share many of the same ways of thinking, you both just get each other. You will enjoy local traveling and socializing with others together.
2nd house :
The Mercury person will easily give compliments to the house person which can enhance the house person self esteem and they may feel more confident as a result. They both see talent in one another and can help each other utilize these talents to make money or acquire resources together. They will come up with many money making ideas together and can inspire one an others more creative side.
3rd house :
If your Mercury is in your partner’s third house of a synastry overlay, you are a real chatterbox around them. You enjoy long conversations over coffee with them since you find it easy to “let it all out” around them. The house person gets your gears turning. Your partner will usually enjoy your conversations just as much, unless the partner is a very shy or introverted type.
4th house :
The Mercury person will have many ideas about their idea of family and home. There may be something familiar about the way the mercury person speaks, thinks or communicates which makes the house person feel at home with them. This can also be the other way around, the house person will make the Mercury person feel very comfortable in discussing personal matters and sharing much about there family and early upbringing. They will feel at home communicating with each other.
5th house :
This placement creates a environment between the couple where they can easily express themselves and feel comfortable doing so. They will have fun and playful conversations. This placement indicates similar views on how to raise children, it can also indicate the desire to have a child with partner. Overall the couple really enjoys each others company. They may enjoy talking about children, past times, playtime or sports.
6th house :
This is a helpful position. The Mercury person will enjoy talking to the house person about their daily activities and will be very helpful or want to be helpful to the house person. The house person can help the Mercury person become more organized, refined or manage their time more efficiently. This is a good placement for the day to day activity that couples that live together may experience such as doing laundry or chores together.
7th house :
This is a excellent position for both a business or romantic relationship. They will both enjoy talking to one another about most things. The Mercury person can help the house person with business matters, by suggesting ideas. They make a good team and find value in one another. They may enjoy talking about relationships of the past or their relationship and their view on how relationships should be. They will both be willing to listen to one an others opinion and the give and take in conversation should be balanced and fair.
8th house :
This is a deep placement for Mercury and indicates that the couple will share many things with each other that they might not otherwise with others. The Mercury person can stimulate the house persons interest in deeper more taboo subjects things around sex, taxes, secrets, and hidden agendas or conspiracy. They will talk openly about sex and may even enjoy talking while having sex. They may also talk about psychology, mysteries, or enjoy researching things of this nature together. The Mercury person might have insights into the house persons secrets and will help open them up to talking about these.
9th house :
The Mercury person will stimulate larger thinking in the house person. The house person might appreciate the Mercury persons for their wealth of knowledge, or intelligence. They both will enjoy talking about esoteric, religious, or culture and will end up learning a great deal from one another. They will share many similar views, philosophies and ideas. They may talk about world travel other cultures, principals and things that expand their minds.
10th house :
Talking about life goals and direction will come easily to this couple. They will enjoy talking about work or career and what they wish to do together. The Mercury person will likely speak highly of the house person to others being a sort of PR person for them. The Mercury person can give great ideas on how to attract attention in business, or help them in their Career. They will have a mutual respect for one another and will see the value in their relationship.
11th house :
Conversation will be open and come with ease. You both think alike and share many of the same hopes and wishes, or ideals. This is the best friend that you can talk to about everything and feel that you are understood, or they just get you.
12th house :
This placement can cause many misunderstandings if both people tend to assume what the other is thinking rather than ask direct questions. Often one or the other person needs some sort of healing, with Mercury it can be things of a mental nature, phobias, fears, anxieties or otherwise. This is also the house of the subconscious, and spiritual so there is usually a intuitive connection or the couples conversations might surround spirituality, otherworldly or psychic phenomena. It’s very important that the two communicate clearly this can not be stressed enough. You may have difficulty communicating having many misunderstandings. This will likely be a spiritual connection.
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Source : Information found on various websites including www.illumeastrology.blogspot.com