Pluto in Synastry
Pluto
> Where you transform eachother. Hidden powers
1st house :
This placement can be very powerful between two people that are attracted to each other in a love relationship for it points to lots of passion and sexual attraction. As with all placements, they are multifaceted and there are multiple ways in which they can play out. There is positive and the negative to all the placements. the Pluto person can help the house person transform areas in their life in which they need transformation. In the negative the Pluto person can be bossy, controlling, dominating, pushy, manipulative or a whole slew of other negative Pluto traits. The house person might find the Pluto person to be too overbearing. Typically, the house person will find the Pluto person alluring, powerful, intense, and sexy. On a sexual level, this can be a highly passionate placement which also involves the potential for jealousy and power struggles.
2nd house :
You can be a powerful force in your partner’s life and will have the ability help increase your partner’s overall confidence, self-worth, and income. the Pluto person may take a very strong interest in the house person’s money, and how they manage or spend it and may try to control how they do so.
The house person might feel like it’s none of their business, which would be true unless of course the house person is being supported by the Pluto person. If the house person had issues surrounding money and asking for what they’re worth, the Pluto person can help them feel more confident in asking for what they deserve or what their work is worth.
3rd house :
Your conversations will be deep, penetrating, not the usual small talk. You want to talk about things that matter or have depth, hidden things, secrets or the things most people prefer not to talk about. it’s possible that the Pluto person will dominate conversations, or force their opinions on the house person. In this case, this placement can be problematic because each person needs to be allowed their opinion without having it shut down. Arguments and blow-ups are likely.
4th house :
The Pluto person may take a deep interest in the house person’s family and early upbringing. If you are living together, the Pluto person may try to control things in the home or be more dominant in the home. The house person may feel that the Pluto person is too dominating, controlling or bossy at home. The house person can help the Pluto person overcome any of their childhood traumas, by being a place of comfort for the Pluto person. This can ignite a very powerful bond if handled correctly. You have an opportunity to develop a strong intimate bond.
5th house :
Pluto here usually points to a tremendous sexual attraction between the two. The house person finds the Pluto person s charismatic, intense and mysteriously sexy. You will both enjoy pursuing creative outlets together, with a strong focus on self-expression. This can point to a competitive environment, which can be good if kept in check. If a relationship evolves they will both be passionate about creative affairs and sex will be intense and not superficial. You may pursue fun and leisure as a couple and experience transformation through children. The Pluto person can help the house person become more expressive and more confident.
6th house :
The Pluto person may show an extreme interest in the house person’s health habits or daily routine and even try to control it. They may find themselves, suggesting new healthy ways to eat, or vitamins and health habits and may be pushy about it. The Pluto person is probably fixed in the way they do things and may insist the house person follows suit. It’s also possible that the Pluto person gets on the house person nerves by being so strict or particular about scheduling or the day to day chores. The Pluto person can help the house person become more organized, fit and healthy. The house person may or may not like this.
7th house :
Your partner finds you secretive, elusive, intense and mysterious. The Pluto person may become obsessed with the house person. The house person may look up to or respect the Pluto person’s fearlessness, or how they wield their personal power. The Pluto person may also have strong ideas on what a relationship should be and how one should act in one. If this is a romantic relationship, then this relationship has the potential to deeply impact and transform the both of you. Marriage may be an ultimate goal or partnering in some form. If married, and the two of you decide on divorce, there may be many power struggles, and vindictive behaviors brought out, and you most likely will not remain friends.
8th house :
This deeply penetrating position of Pluto is exactly where he likes to be. The Pluto person will take a strong interest in knowing all there is to know about the house person. The Pluto person will have deep insights into the house person’s fears and can help them, overcome them or heighten them. Pluto will ask many private and perhaps heavy questions of the house person, and in this exchange of very private information, a deep bond with intimate details is formed. The topics of discussion will likely be in areas of which most people rarely tread. This deep exchange of personal information can make the house person feel very vulnerable. Sex will be intense and passionate and experimental, even risky, or taboo. You will enjoy uncovering secrets and mysteries and all things were hidden. Be careful not to make the relationship too heavy. There may be power struggles in the sharing of resources or control issues over money.
9th house :
The Pluto person may have strong philosophical, religious or fundamental views in which they will openly share with the house person. The house person may agree or disagree and in the latter the Pluto person may become difficult or fixated on proving to the house person they are right. The Pluto person may get the house person to open their horizons in some way and travel if they have not. In areas of higher learning or education, the Pluto person may also help the house person further themselves in this area. The Pluto person can try to manipulate the house person into changing their beliefs in a more negative fashion.
10th house :
The Pluto person will take a strong interest in the house person’s public standing and career. The house person will be someone the Pluto person respects and see’s many of their talents. In the negative, the Pluto person may try to control the house person’s career or decisions made about it. The Pluto person can suggest powerful ways in which the house person may obtain their worldly goals.
11th house :
The Pluto person may try to control who the house person has as friends or have strong opinions about them. The house person will provide a safe place for the Pluto person to be authentic to themselves and will be supportive of the Pluto person’s hopes and wishes. This usually indicates a powerful friendship to where the both of you enjoy socializing together and participating in group activities. The Pluto person may try to get the house person involved in some cause, or group association.
12th house :
The Pluto person can obtain some great insights into the house person that may or may not be comfortable for the house person. This is typically a very powerful psychic connection where after time, you will notice the relationship happens so much on an unconscious level. The Pluto person can bring to light many of the hidden insecurities or ways in the which the house person sabotages them. This is a powerful psychic connection to where the house person will feel as if the Pluto person knows what the house person is thinking at all times, and in some cases causing a sort of confessional. Most people have secrets and this position does not allow for much, so it can be unnerving.
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Various sources such as : https://illumeastrology.blogspot.com & Astromatrix