Love timing
There are several methods to use when predicting a new relationship or a significant time regards romance and love. However, a prediction can only be made once a theme repeats itself throughout several predictive methods. This is also called the rule of 3, it should appear 3 times in order to be 80% sure for an event to manifest.
Most useful methods :
| 1) Transits = current planetary influence 2) Solar Return = horoscope for one year 3) Profections = timelord method & highlighted themes of the year 4) Venus Return = reset in love, new cycle 5) Progressions = psychological evolution & results 6) Solar Arc = life events |
Important planets :
• 7th house ruler (Trigger point for relationships)
• Venus / Mars (Natural significators for Love & lust/Action)
• Moon (Acts as an event trigger mostly in Transit charts & progression)
• Saturn (Acts as commitment)
• Jupiter (Acts as luck & expansion)
• ASC & it’s ruler (Yourself involved)
• Northnode (acts as a fated portal)
Aspects :
• Conjunction = Strong energy, impulse
• Sextile = Opportunities
• Trine = Flowing energy, creation
• Opposition = Attraction, trigger
Type of person :
• Venus = A love interest
• Ruler of 7th = A relationship
• Sun = A man
• Moon = A woman
• Mars = A sexual interest
*NA = Natal chart
1) Transits = T
Transits happen all the time, however it really is a matter of time when it comes to predicting a period when a significant meeting could take place. Your 5th or 7th house are often activated or involved, keep in mind that the 7th house also shows colleague’s and business partners. The aspects listed are for romantic meetings specifically.
”Romance begins in the 5th house, commitment starts in the 7th house”
| • T Venus in 1st, 5th or 7th • T Jupiter in 4th, 5th or 7th • T Venus conjunct ASC / DSC or 7th ruler • T Venus conjunct Mars • T Venus conjunct Northnode • T Jupiter conjunct Mars, Venus or 7th ruler • T Jupiter Trine/Sextile Venus or 7th ruler • T Saturn Trine/Sextile Mars, Venus or 7th ruler • T Uranus Trine/Opposite Venus • T New Moon in 5th or 7th house • T Venus conjunct Neptune transiting through 5th or 7th • T Uranus to Venus often shows a temporary/sudden relationship • T Saturn to Venus often shows a serious relationship • T Pluto to Venus often shows ‘The lover of life’ (karmic) |
2) Solar Return = SR
A solar return chart most definitely shows new relationships. In combination with Transits it shows the beginning or a time of potentially meeting a new love interest. These two methods are the base for predicting love.
When the SR ASC is in the same sign or conjunct the NA ASC, it indicates a new beginning in life, same theory applies to having a new Moon in the SR chart.
| • SR ASC in Taurus or Libra = deep focus onto values, relationships and the sensual side of life • SR Moon in 1st, 4th, 7th or 10th = emotional ‘new beginnings’ • SR Moon in Libra = relationship oriented • SR Jupiter in 5th or 7th = expansion • SR 7th ruler conjunct SR ASC or DSC • SR 7th ruler in SR 7th house • SR Venus conjunct SR ASC = attracting people • SR Uranus Trine/Square SR Venus = sudden attraction, unusual • SR Neptune in 5th = often the year of falling in love • Heavy Libra planets or placements = emphasis onto relationships • SR Venus in natal 1st, 5th or 7th house • SR Venus conjunct NA Moon, Jupiter or 7th ruler • SR Venus AND Moon both in cardinal sign or house • SR Venus conjunct natal Venus = reset in values and love, activation of natal promise • SR Venus in the same sign as natal Venus = activation of natal promise |
3) Lunar Return = LR
The Lunar chart is a helpful method to use when the solar return chart indicates a year of love ahead. This chart can be used to foresee the month in which the event could take place. The LR ASC will mostly be in the same sign as the SR ASC = Taurus & libra.
Circumstances can be seen in this chart by looking at the 7th house and its ruler ; the aspects it receives.
| • LR ASC in Taurus or Libra (same as the Solar return ASC) • LR Moon Trine/Sextile or Conjunct LR 7th ruler (orb 0-3 degrees) • LR Moon Trine/Sextile or Conjunct LR Sun • LR ASC ruler in LR 7th or 10th • LR ASC conjunct NA DSC |
4) Venus Return = VR
This method is specifically based on all matters of love. Hard aspects show a change of relationship status, either as a breakup or a new meeting. The VR Descendant is of importance to understand how your relationships will be in the upcoming year. When the DSC falls into Aquarius for example, it indicates change and a need for freedom, same applied when Venus or the 7th ruler is in aspect with Uranus. The aspects that Venus receives may describe in what circumstance or area you’ll meet your partner. Such as when Venus is aspected by the 12th house, it could signify a secret meeting/behind the scenes. Venus aspected by 6th ruler could indicate meeting during daily routine or at work, etc etc
| 1) What is the VR DSC 2) In which house is Venus 3) What aspects does Venus receive 4) Which house rulers are aspecting Venus 5) Which house rulers are aspecting the 7th ruler 6) Are the ASC and DSC in aspect to each other • VR Venus in VR 1st, 5th or 7th house • VR 7th ruler in VR 7th house • VR ASC in Taurus or Libra • VR 7th ruler in aspect to VR ASC ruler |
5) Progressions = P
This chart shows important life events and psychological changes. Only use the inner planets and angles. You can consider both the progressed chart by itself, or the comparison to natal chart to see potential triggers. The following also applies to Progressed synastry : use progressions of person A + natal chart of person B (or vice versa)
Most effective when the orb is 0-1 degrees
| • P Venus changing sign = changing values and that what you feel attracted to • P Sun or Moon conjunct one of the angles • P Venus conjunct/harmonious aspect to natal Sun or Moon, and vice versa • P Mars changing sign = changing sexual desires, different drive & motives • P Moon going into the 7th house • Progressed planet conjunct Sun-Moon midpoint • P Venus or 7th ruler conjunct NA NorthNode = karmic romance • P Saturn Trine/Sextile NA Venus or 7th ruler • Personal new moon (Progressed Moon conjunct Natal Moon) = either a breakup or new relationship • P 7th ruler conjunct Venus • P Venus Trine/Sextile NA ASC • P Venus Trine/Conjunct NA Mars • P Moon conjunct NA Sun • P Mars opposite natal Venus, or vice versa = attraction of a romantic interest |
6) Solar Arc = SA
The Solar Arc also shows major life events, all the planets are useful in this chart whilst the outerplanets won’t move much in the Progressed chart.
Most effective when the orb is 0-1 degrees
| • SA Moon Trine/Sextile/Conjunct DSC • SA Saturn Trine/Sextile/Conjunct DSC • SA Venus conjunct DSC • SA Northnode Trine/Sextile Venus or 7th ruler • SA Pluto Trine/sextile Saturn • SA DSC conjunct Venus or 7th ruler |
In most cases it’s clearly seen in all 6 charts. In the Progressed and Solar arc the aspect is mostly exact or an orb of 1 degree maximum. A meeting can happen when the orb is in 1-2 degrees.
New Moons in any of these charts are very powerful especially if they happen in one of the relationship houses : 1st, 4th, 5th, 7th
I have noticed the year of meeting a potential mate hold the ASC of Leo in the Solar return, while in the year when the relationship will manifest, the Solar Return chart holds the ASC in Taurus or Libra.
Hard aspects especially in Solar Return, Progressed or Solar Arc charts can also indicate a meeting, however there will be challenges and frictions involved, such as the meeting being difficult or secret, it can also indicate that the relationship may have some difficulties aswell. The more harmonious aspects, the better the relationship will be.
Some of these methods may also show the theme of the relationship, such as repeating contacts between two planets that are also to be found back in the synastry chart of you and the other person. Something to check when you have to exact birth information of your partner.